Because Family Matters: Watch the video for more . . .
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Actually there is no more reason to forgive your brother or sister than to forgive anyone else – except for the fact he or she is a convenient person to apply the Tipping Method to, given the fact that he or she is family. Family matters. So when a big upset occurs between brothers and sisters, it provides them with a really good opportunity to experience the power of Radical Forgiveness to change their lives.
Now you might think that’s an odd way to answer the above question, and I don’t mean to sidestep the fact that you might be in pain about a rift between you and your sibling, but my experience is that when siblings fight and really fall out with each other it is nearly always becomes a big issue, with each one holding onto their need to be right about it. And as such, it offers a chance for incredible growth.
We might say then, that this is the higher purpose for doing this program and I’ve not doubt you’ll understand this better once you have completed the 21 days.
But what about the actual benefits of healing the upset between you and your sibling? Why is it so important to forgive him or her? Well, there’s no doubt that maintaining a grudge or grievance against anyone, for any length of time, no matter who it is, can only be bad for your health and well-being. Suppressed anger and lingering resentment can really make you sick and can even kill you. There’s a load of research out there that proves that. And as I said before, maintaining an upset with your sibling is more likely to have negative effects on your overall health and well-being simply because family matters. The ties are too strong for it not to matter. And that’s why it cannot be left to fester only to get handed on the next generation.
Another reason why it is important to forgive your sibling is that upsets between any two of you seldom exist in isolation from other members of the family, so the upset may be far from simple and in so far that others may be implicated – especially your parents, step-parents and even grandparents, the grievance may not actually be about your brother or sister at all. Nevertheless, doing this program on your sibling could have the effect of automatically healing all these underlying family issues as well, without you even having to know what they are or figure it all out. You will just notice that the energies will change and you will feel more comfortable around them as well as with your siblings.
By the way, to be clear, I am using the word sibling as a generic term to include brothers, sisters, half-brothers, half-sisters, step-children, adopted children and any other person who is broadly of the same generation as you and considered to be part of your family of origin.
If issues do surface, such as a parent exhibiting unfair or extreme favoritism towards your sibling to the extent that it made you hate your sibling, then there is a 21-day Program for Forgiving Your Parents that you might wish to do after this one.
Obviously, how you approach this program depends on the ages, now, of yourself and the sibling you might wish to work on, and the stage in each of your lives that the upset occurred or has its origins. Very often we find that sibling hatred, if we can call it that, started way back in early childhood, not infrequently at the very moment that the younger of the two was born for obvious reasons, and this animosity continues down the years, and gets acted out in many different ways. Sexual molestation by one sibling on a younger one is all too common and that can be a source of guilt and anger in the later lives of both, yet can be easily worked through by the ‘victim’ using this program. It is also common for two siblings who were very close as children to become adversaries once they get married.
But we also find a big proportion of the conflicts between siblings arise in the later years when the care of their elderly parents becomes the big issue, and then, and this is the big one, how the estate is divided upon their parent’s death. There are millions of people who, because of how the wills were handled, have never spoken to their brothers or sisters again on account of what happened with the money and other items of value when their parents died, and how it all got handled.
Since few people today have only one spouse, serial marriage and blended families being the norm these days, this has become an absolute minefield in which relationships between siblings become soured, with each of them becoming embittered and full of resentment towards each other. This inevitably gets handed down to the next generation and so it goes on. This is another good reason why we should clear the energy with our siblings before our own children take it on as their pain.
Oh, and by the way, I hope this is not the case, but I need to point out that from the point of view of the process, it doesn’t make any difference if the sibling you are working on is already dead or is living somewhere else on the planet. The process is exactly the same because it just involves you. You don’t even tell your sibling that you are doing this work.
Finally, I should point out that coming to like your brother or sister, after years of not liking him or her, if that should be the case, is not the objective of Radical Forgiveness. You don’t have to like anyone to forgive them. That’s not the goal. You do the forgiveness for yourself. In that sense it is a very selfish act. To do Radical Forgiveness is to release all the stored negative energy held in your body, mind and spirit caused, as you see it anyway, by the other person so you can restore yourself to a feeling of peace and harmony. Having said that though, when you do it on a family member between whom there once was love and acceptance, our hope is that that love will be restored.
So, to sum it all up, not only will this program enable you to feel a whole lot happier and at peace with your sibling, it may well heal the issues that might have created the upset with your sibling in the first place and many others besides. It may even bring you back into a loving relationship with your brother or sister. Nevertheless, I have no doubt that doing this program will change your life for the better. I do hope you will make that choice for yourself today. Thanks for listening.
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